``If you have a disagreement with someone, and his anger gets out of control, discuss the issues in private. Always bring another person in the room with you. Tell him calmly that his behavior is unprofessional. If he is still yelling, leave the room. Women must have professional standards of behavior; for instance, they need not allow anyone to yell at them. Always evaluate the professional role you're in at the moment, and what the best course of action is for that role, rather than how a woman would react.''